She said, "No let her get up by herself". She said it nicely. It is part of PT training for me.
I had taken it for granted of his helping hand. He automatically reached down for me and I automatically reached up for his hand.
A lesson for me is that I should not to take hubs for granted! He laughs about getting smacked for trying to help me up.
A spiritual lesson applies here also. We are blessed to have a helping hand reach down for us also.